Ms Singh and family therapist Lilian Loo from Promises Healthcare discussed the dynamics between siblings in families. They noted that oldest children often feel a strong sense of responsibility due to automatic approval from their parents, while sibling conflicts are common during childhood but can improve with age. However, unresolved issues such as parental favouritism or past rivalries can cause distance and tension between adult siblings, leading to feelings of jealousy and resentment.
https://channelnewsasia.com/today/adulting/there-she-goes-again-wrong-cut-ties-sibling-falling-out-4791076With a growing number of adults being diagnosed with autism, many are experiencing a "lightbulb moment" where their quirky behaviors and anxieties are finally explained. This diagnosis can also provide insight for their partners, who may adopt small changes in approach to smooth communication and minimize stress and conflict. According to occupational therapist Conor Mc Donagh, autistic individuals often learn to manage their issues without realizing the impact on their loved ones, and it's often a partner who reveals that their coping strategies may not work well in relationships. McDonagh notes that men are four times more likely to be autistic than women, and he identifies six signs of autism in partners, including being infuriatingly indifferent and swerving social situations. He advises against accusing an autistic partner of being cold or heartless, but rather recommends "conversational signposting" such as telling them you want to talk about a specific issue. McDonagh also notes that autistic individuals may struggle with sensory overload in busy social environments and may be more inclined to offer logical solutions rather than emotional support.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-14156715/husband-indifferent-rigid-avoiding-friends-reason.htmlA study of 15,000 British people aged 60-85 found that living apart together (LAT) had fewer mental health benefits than marriage, although the break-ups were less severe than those experienced by couples going through a divorce or moving out of a shared home. Logan Ury, director of relationship science at Hinge and an expert on Netflix's "The Later Daters," notes that she has seen this trend thrive among older couples who prefer to maintain their independence while still being in a long-term relationship.
https://www.insider.com/living-apart-together-study-benefits-older-couples-2024-12The Christmas season is a time for reflection and self-care, allowing individuals to step away from daily pressures and cultivate an open heart filled with love, kindness, and forgiveness. The story of Christmas encourages people to consider the feelings and experiences of others, acknowledging their vulnerabilities and the importance of empathy in relationships.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-14140805/Details-Kates-carol-concert-revealed-William-join-wife-Christmas-service-cancer-diagnosis-set-star-studded-affair.htmlCarol Rice, in an article published in Public Square Magazine, argues that cutting off family members as a last resort due to hurtful relationship dynamics is sometimes necessary for self-preservation and healing. However, she warns that setting boundaries can become unbalanced and harden relationships if not approached with care. A commentator suggests that this approach can be seen as an "epitome of living in an echo chamber" when used to avoid meaningful conversations over petty disagreements. Rice notes that in such cases, the relationship is not just strained but has become a "chasm" where respect has been replaced by resistance and contempt.
https://www.deseret.com/opinion/2024/11/25/boundaries-overdone-case-for-healing-a-relationship/South Korean TV shows have become increasingly popular globally, with many viewers tuning in to watch dramas such as "Squid Game" and "Crash Landing On You". According to therapist Jeanie Chang, a Korean-American expert, watching these shows can have a positive impact on mental health. Chang suggests that the soap-like plotlines of K-dramas help people process their emotions and navigate real-world challenges by depicting characters dealing with issues such as grief, trauma, and relationships. This can be particularly beneficial for viewers who may struggle to connect with their own emotions or experiences, including those from diverse cultural backgrounds like Chang herself, who was raised in the US but has Korean roots.
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